despite some of my comments I make, I do have a heart and feelings, do any of you have any "the one that got away" type stories, can be male or female let me start a couple of years ago I met a girl from a different country while overseas and fell instantly in love with her, I was in my early 30s, she was a few years younger, had a 1 year old from a previous marriage. my friends thought I was nuts! single mother, foreign country, etc. etc. and no I wasnt one of those sex tourists or old geezers offering visas to some young hottie overseas who only saw me as a visa supplier. I proceeded to visit her 6 times per year, for periods of 2 weeks, she was stubborn, classy, gorgeous, educated, and was smart. oh boy did she have a temper, especially when she was drunk. and got very emotional at times. she never asked me for money, I even offered to take her back to my country, but she didnt want to come. when we went out she'd often pay for me, financially she was pretty secure (thats the vibe I got, I never asked). From the time we met, we just hit it off, there was an instant connection! its hard to describe it, yes physical played a big part of it but it was more than that she said she had no interest in having another relationship as her child was her number one priority until she met me! I catch up with her every now again as friends, and you can tell she still is absolutely crazy about me, however her common sense prevails and says "this isnt going to work" admittedly, there is a lot about eachother that we dont know despite knowing eachtoher for years, but regardless of all that, i even considered moving to her country to be with her, If I suddenly became single tomorrow, who knows what Id do! Thats how much she meant to me!!